Sunday, April 05, 2009

Diversity or Division?


Doug Glanville is a former professional baseball player who grew up in Teaneck (his parents still live here) and played most of his nine-year career with the Philadelphia Phillies. Since retiring, he has written a number of erudite columns for The New York Times called "Heading Home", most of which have some connection to baseball with a greater commentary on society as a whole.

A few days ago, my Google News Alert notified of an article Glanville had written, and I initially assumed that the mention of Teaneck would be a passing reference, of the sort "Glanville, who grew up in Teaneck, N.J..." and that the article would be about baseball and little more. The article I read, "The World in One Game" covered the recent World Baseball Classic, with Glanville commenting on how baseball has benefited from the influx of cultures around the world, as players from all nations and races are integrated into the sport. He contrasted the changes in baseball with his experiences growing up here, in Teaneck:

Part of the reason this experience is so moving to me is that I hail from a small town (Teaneck, N.J.) and this particular tone — people from all walks of life working together — was set for me from the time I went to kindergarten. Teaneck is known for having the first high school in the United States to voluntarily integrate its student body, in 1965. But more importantly, they took that fact and improved on it.

So I grew up in a community committed to learning how to communicate across cultural and religious lines. Cottage parties would fill up a neighbor’s basement to discuss Jewish and African-American relations, meet-up groups would form to decide how to celebrate various cultures at the high school, dialogues and community sessions were constantly challenging people to learn outside the box. The town decided that it was stronger as a cohesive unit than as a scapegoating machine that fell upon the ease and comfort of stereotyping. It took control of its destiny and found a way.

My baseball team in high school was ethnically diverse. Unfortunately, it was not uncommon for us, when traveling to some nearby towns, to hear from opposing fans exactly how uncomfortable our smorgasbord of cultures made them feel. Once, one of my teammates got tired of verbal abuse from a spectator who had gone on for an entire game, and yelled back at the offender. After the game, this fan’s husband (who happened to be dressed in business attire) waited near our bus and kicked one of our players in the chest. He capped that off with some racially inappropriate comments.

But the entire team banded together and stood firmly behind our teammate in support. It wasn’t because he was black, or our captain for that matter — he was our teammate. That moment demonstrated how it’s possible to avoid making decisions based on the side of the tracks you live on or what box you check to describe your race in a questionnaire.

After I left Teaneck High School, I didn’t see quite that kind of commitment — people working together to make diversity a strength — until I put on that major league uniform. I still believe it is the best lesson baseball can give us.
Glanville, born in 1970, grew up in a Teaneck that was still basking in the afterglow of its role as the first community to voluntarily integrate its schools, an effort documented in the feel-good story Triumph in a White Suburb written in 1968 by township resident Reginald G. Damerell.

The Teaneck that Glanville described most certainly existed, but did not survive unscathed. I moved with my family to Teaneck a couple of years after Glanville had graduated from Teaneck High School, and while I knew few of the details of the 1965 integration, I certainly knew about the aftermath of the shooting death of Phillip Pannell and the bitter protests that ensued.

Once I became more involved in Teaneck affairs, I saw many people who were still carrying on the vestiges of the earlier work in building bridges between Teaneck's diverse communities. But I also saw those who believed that a divisive approach would better allow them to pursue their own objectives. After all, a bridge that took many years to build can be taken down in seconds with a few sticks of dynamite. This is best (or worst) seen in how our recent elections have been marred with shameless appeals to ethnic particularism.

The 2006 elections featured this type of rhetoric in email sent by people who know far better, pushing Orthodox voters by insisting that "[i]t would be in our common best interest to get these guys elected", solely based on what the writer acknowledged as a rumor that "[t]here are candidates running who would be happy to take down the eruv." An effort by the Advisory Board on Community Relations to address these divisive campaign tactics was rejected by the Township Council for consideration at a Council workshop meeting shortly after the new members took office.

I am still nauseated by the May 2008 issue of The Jewish Voice and Opinion that I found doing some Passover cleaning, with the front page blaring the unattributed claim that "[t]he perception of many residents is that one group of candidates will be 'good for the Jews' because they are also beneficial for the township as a whole, while another will threaten the wellbeing of the Jewish community by dividing the town and targeting the Orthodox."

While I am equally bothered by unaddressed remarks about the "gas chamber", what offends me about the statements cited above is that they are intended to represent me as a member of Teaneck's Orthodox community as part of a divide and conquer strategy.

In participating in the Teaneck Community Project (also known as the "Visioning Process"), the hundreds of participants were asked to list Teaneck's greatest assets and its greatest causes for concern. Diversity came up at or near the top of both lists.

While Teaneck, its municipal government and its public schools all face genuine issues, it is clear that there are no uniquely Black or White, Orthodox, Jewish, Muslim or Christian, or Hispanic or Asian solutions to Teaneck problems. With a school board election just over two weeks away and a municipal election in just over a year, I sincerely hope that there will be candidates seeking Teaneck solutions to Teaneck's problems. Maybe Doug Glanville's vision of Teaneck still exists, after all these years.

Alan Sohn

27 comments:

Swiggle said...

I am still nauseated by the May 2008 issue of The Jewish Voice and Opinion that I found doing some Passover cleaning

Alan,

You are full of crap. If you didn't obsess over a magazine written by a crack-pot you may have also mentioned the very real divisions that were sown by actual candidates in the 2008 race that appealed solely to the North East section of town.

Perhaps you just forgot about the members of the press that were harassed at a meeting hosted by Teaneck United?

Perhaps you just forgot about the council meetings in which people claimed that the property revals would be reversed if certain council members were elected over others?!?

Even Esther (Swurgle at the time) said:
Teaneck Blog - Wishful thinking on your part. My fear is that the folks in the Northeast will view the shift in tax burden as an Orthodox conspiracy which will further erode their trust in the Council majority.

My radar tells me that the so-called "greenies" and the people in the Northeast are more natural allies, even if their interests aren't 100% aligned.


You say:
What offends me about the statements cited above is that they are intended to represent me as a member of Teaneck's Orthodox community as part of a divide and conquer strategy.

I really try to understand where you're coming from but I'm not sure what makes you so self loathing that you claim that the Orthos are trying to divide and conquer when that is clearly so far from the truth.

Is this the kind of of diversity politics we can look forward to in your bid for council?

With any luck you won't be able to get the right amount of signatures this round either.

esther said...

As you can see, the contributing writers here at Teaneck Progress are just one big happy family. Perhaps after Passover we can have that Teaneck Blogpsphere Meetup that we once talked about.

We can call it the Teaneck Progress Super Smackdown.

esther said...

And to comment on Alan's thread. Definatelyba blind man and the elephant thing because I fixated on totally other aspects. As a person who attended the public schools during the heady period directly after integration I could totally relate to what Doug Glanville described. My experiences growing up affected who I am in profound ways and I would venture to say that many people who grew up in Teaneck at the time and afterward shared that sense of pride. And you know what? I still feel it. My kids are having a highly enriched experience attended a diverse school system that they will carry forward into adulthood.

esther said...

Please blame the above misspellings to psoting via iPhone.

Yoni said...

I don't want to restart old fights but suffice it to say there was blame to go around for the nastiness of the last election.

Let's hope the next one is more pleasant.

esther said...

I still like to think of Teaneck as a place that proves that different type of people can live and work together. When people play the race card or the anti-semitism card, I'm tempted to leave flaming dog feces on their doorstep. But that's just me...

Zev Mo said...

@Yoni

I agree.

Alan Sohn said...

Alan, You are full of crap.

Coming from you, I shall wear that as a badge of honor.

While I do tear out the monthly Dunkin' Donuts coupon and look for the absurdly over-the-top ads demanding the removal of Israeli and American political leaders, I certainly don't "obsess" over the JV&O. But I do find that local community and political leaders have been more than willing to appear on the publication's pages and have never disassociated themselves from its "crack-pot" editor or her divisive content that comes directly from the campaigns of the candidates.

I thoroughly analyzed the revaluation data, and while I agree that the residents of the Northeast were disproportionately impacted by tax increases, I agree that the charge of political motivation is ludicrous. I am unfamiliar with your claims that the revaluation and its results have been called an "Orthodox conspiracy", but I would appreciate your sources.

I attended the Teaneck United meeting that was called following the Katz Team's anti-Honis attack ad, and I agree 100% that the harassment of the reporter who attended was completely wrong. You linked to the same video in a blog post from last May about the meeting, and while I don't recall your attendance there and haven't spotted you in the video, I stepped out of the meeting after the reporter was hounded out of the room and told him that I thought that it was wrong to exclude a member of the Press and counterproductive to the purpose of the meeting.

I guess blaming the other guy is always an effective tool of denial, but the lack of any acknowledgment of the rather genuine problems caused by the small numbers of people in Teaneck across communities who pursue the divide-and-conquer approach is disturbing, to say the least.

Is this the kind of of diversity politics we can look forward to in your bid for council?

Absolutely! I will do my best to build bridges between communities united by addressing genuine issues and I will stand up to racism, bigotry and the politics of division, whatever its source.

Alan Sohn

Barbara Ley said...

Just one correction to Mr. Glanville's article: Teaneck was the first municipality in the U.S. to integrate ALL of its schools (not just the high school)by vote. Bryant was made the central 6th grade and Washington Irving was the central kindergarten.

Barbara Toffler said...

Somehow my last name was deleted on previous entry

Swiggle said...

I certainly don't "obsess" over the JV&O.

You save the back issues and quote them a year later. I'm not sure if obsession is the right term, but it certainly seems to fit.

But I do find that local community and political leaders have been more than willing to appear on the publication's pages and have never disassociated themselves from its "crack-pot" editor or her divisive content that comes directly from the campaigns of the candidates.

There's a difference between answering questions that you are asked by a member of the press (even one you disagree with) and an endorsement of the ideas put forth in the paper.

I am unfamiliar with your claims that the revaluation and its results have been called an "Orthodox conspiracy", but I would appreciate your sources.

Those were not my words, they were Esther's (or Swurgle to be historically accurate).

To the broader point, you could have seen this article as a way to put forward a positive piece...but instead, all you did was reach into the bin of despair to dredge up old rhetoric that we were all moving past.

Alan Sohn said...

You save the back issues and quote them a year later. I'm not sure if obsession is the right term, but it certainly seems to fit.

Much to my wife's chagrin, I'm a saver. I go back a year or two on the Suburbanite and several years of the New York Times Magazine. I have about two or three issues I've saved of the Jewish Voice & Opinion; all other issues I recycle upon receipt (and removal of Dunkin' Donuts coupon).

There's a difference between answering questions that you are asked by a member of the press (even one you disagree with) and an endorsement of the ideas put forth in the paper.

Anyone who accepts an endorsement from the Jewish Voice & Opinion or any other publication that uses race-baiting as part of its modus operandi, and refuses to reject that endorsement, is tainted by it.

To the broader point, you could have seen this article as a way to put forward a positive piece...but instead, all you did was reach into the bin of despair to dredge up old rhetoric that we were all moving past.

I'm sorry I wasn't even clearer. The Teaneck Doug Glanville described succeeded because people across races and religions worked together to solve Teaneck's problems.

The problems we have faced for years, and the mounting economic difficulties we face, have no solutions that are unique to any one of Teaneck's communities.

As Santayana said "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." We can either try to pretend the past didn't happen or we can learn from it.

While there are people from all communities looking to solve problems, there are also people looking to create them. I hope that the model Glanville describes can be sustained and recreated, which will require both working together and standing up to those who hope to succeed for themselves by sowing division.

Alan Sohn

esther said...

At the time I wrote that comment, more than 2 years ago, there was a great deal of paranoid chatter in town about the council election controversies and about the tax reval.

In my perception things are better now. Of course, I've sworn off flipping through JV&O lately.

Tom Abbott said...

First, the meeting referred to by Swiggle's as a meeting hosted by "Teaneck United" was actually hosted by the Northeast Teaneck Block President's Association.

Second, Team Teaneck did more than speak to reporters from the JV&O. Whoever was running Team Teaneck's campaign placed an ad in the JV&O, but did not place an ad in the Suburbanite. This was not a monetary consideration as they had more than enough money left over to have placed ads in both.

Tom Abbott said...

On a pleasanter note, I agree with Esther's reaction to the article and also focused on Glanville's reaction to growing up in Teaneck. My children are older than Esther's. They graduated from THS in 2002 and 2004. They benefited from what Esther describes as a
"highly enriched experience attended a diverse school system". They have carried the benefits into adulthood.

Fortunately, children are often immune to the political battles that rage in the world around them. This can be particularly true in a town like Teaneck where despite the battles, most residents have a genuine desire to do whats best for our community and all our children.

esther said...

Forgive my pidgeon English. I do most of my commenting by iPhone.

Yoni said...

As Santayana said "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." We can either try to pretend the past didn't happen or we can learn from it

I was at a work-related meeting last year and someone brought up an old fight & reopened all the old wounds. When people groaned about it he gave the exact same quote from Santayana.

The reality, though, is that most conflicts around the world stem from people refusing to FORGET history & keep rehashing old battles.

Usually its best to let bygones be bygones. No one will win if we keep arguing about the past. I hope everyone will resist the effort to respond to the posts above about Election '08 and instead focus on actual issues affecting our town.

esther said...

I think there's an appropriate middle position between rehashing old conflicts and forgetting history.

In the case of Teaneck, what we have to guard against is people who use polarizing language and insinuations to achieve political ends.

The future of Teaneck is not a zero sum game, where one group benefits from the misfortune of another. We all rise or fall together regardless of how we look or dress or what we believe.

Brenda said...

I grew up with Doug's brother and my brother grew up with Doug. I concur with both Doug and Esther. I can not speak to what the town is like today. However, growing up in Teaneck in the 1970s shaped who I am today, for better or worse. I am often taken back at how the rest of the world does not seem to echo the sensibilities of my childhood home. I have been called naive many a time for this confusion; a very interesting position for a cynic.

Karin said...

However, growing up in Teaneck in the 1970s shaped who I am today, for better or worse. I am often taken back at how the rest of the world does not seem to echo the sensibilities of my childhood home.

Your childhood home was way different than it is today.

esther said...

You gotta feel sorry for someone like Karin who hates everything about Teaneck yet continues to live here.

Teaneck is Karin's personal hell from which she can't escape.

Karin said...

You gotta feel sorry for someone like Karin who hates everything about Teaneck yet continues to live here.

Teaneck is Karin's personal hell from which she can't escape.


Now, now Esther. Teaneck is not my personal hell :) Perhaps it is someone ones but not mine.

And I don't hate "everything" about Teaneck, but to say that Teaneck is the same as it was way back when is a crock, we all know that it is not. Teaneck now is not the same as it was when I went to school here (same time as Doug Glanville) .

There are many things I don't like about the town that I will give you :) Just as I am sure that there are things that you do not like

Brenda said...

The town may be different, I would be concerned if it wasn't. It's not the Truman Show after all. More importantly, the lens of adulthood is different from that of childhood. What we experienced in the classrooms and playgrounds was the likely the result of arguments, and concessions that our parents had to make.

Karin said...

The town may be different, I would be concerned if it wasn't.

Yes but are those differences for the better?

More importantly, the lens of adulthood is different from that of childhood.

True

Jeff said...

Somebody once said that it's somewhat up to members of our various groups to insist that other members of their group behave themselves. In that respect, perhaps Alan has a greater obligation (not to mention more courage) to criticize the JV&O, and those who find it useful, than to criticize those who ran that dreadful Northeast Block Association Presidents meeting last spring.

And whether Swiggle was there or not, he's right that it was pretty dreadful. Beyond the censorship by phony liberals, and beyond the stupid gas chamber comment (made infinitely more controversial by the adolescent princess's refusal to admit to her lapse), there was also the statement by a certain disgracefully tolerated crackpot that relations with Jews "is the least of our worries" -- a statement that got some good chuckles. I've already admitted to the fact that the princess's gas chamber remark went right over my head at the time. But that other unreported statement truly made me wince.

The point being, Swiggle, that yes, there is blame to go around for everybody. But as I'm sure your mother taught you, "everbody does it" is not an excuse. We all have to take responsibility for ourselves. And our families. And our groups. And our whole community.

NewHere said...

What a beautiful article. I moved to Teaneck from Brooklyn just a couple of months ago. I have a diverse group of friends who live here, and I always thought of Teaneck as an open-minded town, not the stereotypical suburb. When I started reading some of the articles posted on the various Teaneck blogs, I began to wonder if my view was completely illusory. Thanks, Alan, for reaffirming my belief in Teaneck.

Anonymous said...

Hey new guy from Brooklyn-

Check with the people who hounded Councilman Rudolph as to whether you are welcome here.